A 1866 Gustave Courbet painting of two women naked in bed
Lesbian sexual practices are sexual activities involving women who have sex with women, irrespective of their sexual orientation. A woman who has sex with another woman may identify as a lesbian if she is exclusively sexually attracted to women, or bisexual if she is not exclusively sexually attracted to women, or dispense with sexual identification altogether. The term may also be applied to a heterosexual woman who is unsure of or is exploring her sexuality. Romantic or sexual interpersonal relationships are often subject tosexual desire and arousal, which then leads to sexual activity for sexual release. A physical expression of intimacy between women depends on the context of the relationship along with social, cultural and other influences.
It is common for women to engage in displays of affection, such as kissing on the cheek or hugging. However, such acts of intimacy are generally regarded as forms of greeting and not regarded as sexual, not being intended to generate erotic sensations or sexual excitement. A kiss on the lips or a prolonged kiss or hug or other forms of touching may be regarded as sexual.
Stripping before a partner or removing the clothing of a partner or performing acts of physical intimacy, such as the touching of a partner’s erogenous zones by the use of the tongue or rest of the mouth, or hands, may be regarded as indicators of the partner’s desire for sexual activity and be an erotic stimuli or turn-on, which generates erotic sensations or sexual excitement in both partners. Allowing such acts of physical intimacy, especially the stimulation of a partner’s breasts and nipples, is an indication of either reciprocal interest in a sexual activity or, if unwelcome, of submission. It is the general practice to begin sexual activity with a kiss on the lips, which is usually associated with an indication of emotional attachment. The failure or refusal to give or accept a kiss is commonly taken as an indicator of desire to avoid an emotional attachment, and to dispel such an implication may require an explanation, such as the person having a contagious disease such as a cold.
Woman performing cunnilingus on her sex partner
A woman’s mouth, lips and tongue are sensitive erogenous zones which are very commonly used by both partners during the preliminary stages and throughout a sexual activity. They are used for kissing, sucking, and licking besides other acts. The stimulation of a partner’s breasts is very common as a form of foreplay and throughout a sexual activity. The oral or manual stimulation of nipples is commonly performed on women by a partner, either for itself or as part of other sexual activity. Breast and nipple stimulation of women is a near-universal aspect of sexual activity where the woman is the recipient of sexual attention. The stimulation of a woman’s nipples promotes the production and release of oxytocin and prolactin. During the stimulation of the nipples, large amounts of oxytocin are released, which would normally prepare the breast for breastfeeding. Besides creating maternal feelings in a woman, it also decreases her anxiety and increases bonding and trust.
Oral stimulation of the vulva, clitoris, vagina or anus is commonly practiced between women and, like oral stimulation of the nipples, can include the use of teeth in addition to use of the lips or tongue. Oral sex that involves the stimulation of the woman’s vulva, clitoris or vagina is called cunnilingus. The oral stimulation of the anus, called anilingus, is more rarely practiced.
Tribadism is a common non-penetrative sexual act between women. The practice is often known by its “scissoring” position, and is also referred to as frottage or in popular slang as dry humping. It involves a woman rubbing her vulva against her partner’s vulva, thigh, stomach, buttocks, arm, or another body part, or the partner doing the rubbing. This may be achieved in a number of sex positions, including a missionary, a woman on top, doggy style, scissoring or other position. It may be accompanied by fingering or penetration with a dildo.
Fingering involves the use of the fingers to massage a woman’s vulva, clitoris, vagina or anus. Massage of the vulva, and in particular the clitoris, is the most common way for a woman to reach and achieve an orgasm. Fingering may be self-fingering, one-sided, mutual, penetrative or non-penetrative. It can be performed in most positions, and massaging inside the vagina may stimulate a woman’s G-Spot, which may lead to female ejaculation. For some women, stimulating the G-Spot area creates a more intense orgasm than direct clitoral stimulation. For deeper vaginal, anal or oral penetration, a dildo, strap-on dildo or other sex toys may be used.
On occasion, for variety, or on a more regular or routine basis, a partner may assume a passive role during a sexual activity and leave it to their partner to provide their sexual satisfaction. For example, a partner in a doggy style position is passive and open to a variety of sex acts, generally at the choice of the active partner, such as fingering from behind, massage or stimulation of erogenous zones, such as the genitals, nipples, and buttocks, and receiving an playful spank to the buttocks. The active partner can also introduce a sex toy, such as a dildo or vibrator, into the vagina or anus. To ensure passivity and to enhance the feeling of or actual submission, a partner may also take part in bondage or in other BDSMactivities. During sexual bondage, the restrained partner is generally open to a variety of sex acts and cannot interfere in the ensuing sexual activity. She is dependent for her sexual satisfaction on the actions of her partner, who can choose the type and pace of the sexual activity and can introduce sex toys. For example, a pecker gag can be used to gag the restrained partner as well as to require her to suck during sexual activity in a similar manner to an adult pacifier. The active partner has the role of treating the restrained partner as a sex object to be used for her own sexual satisfaction. In fact the active partner may herself derive sexual satisfaction from providing her sex partner with sexual satisfaction and bringing her to orgasm.
Orgasm in women is often associated with other involuntary actions, including muscular spasms in multiple areas of the body, a general euphoric sensation and, frequently, body movements and vocalizations. The period after orgasm (known as a refractory period) is often a relaxing experience, attributed to the release of the neurohormones oxytocin and prolactin.
Two women engaged in the missionary position of tribadism
Sex educator and feminist Shere Hite noted that one of her female research subjects had written, “Sex with a woman includes: touching, kissing, smiling, looking serious, embracing, talking, digital intercourse, caressing, looking, cunnilingus, undressing, remembering later, making sounds, sometimes gently biting, sometimes crying, and breathing and sighing together.”
In 1953, Alfred Kinsey’s Sexual Behavior in the Human Female showed that, over the previous five years of sexual activity, 78% of women had orgasms in 60% to 100% of sexual encounters with other women, compared with 55% for heterosexual sex. Kinsey attributed this difference to female partners knowing more about women’s sexuality and how to optimize women’s sexual satisfaction than male partners do.Similarly, studies by several scholars, including Masters and Johnson, concluded that lesbian sexual behaviors more often have qualities associated with sexual satisfaction than their heterosexual counterparts, or that female partners are more likely to emphasize the emotional aspects of lovemaking. Masters and Johnson 1979 study on lesbian sexual practices concluded that lesbian sexual encounters include more full-body sexual contact, rather than genital-focused contact, less preoccupation or anxiety about achieving orgasm, more sexual assertiveness and communication about sexual needs, longer lasting sexual encounters and greater satisfaction with the overall quality of one’s sexual life.
Studies by Pepper Schwartz and Philip Blumstein (1983) and Diane Holmberg and Karen L. Blair (2009) contradict research indicating that women in same-sex relationships are more sexually satisfied than their heterosexual counterparts. Schwartz concluded that lesbian couples in committed relationships have less sex than any other type of couple, and that they generally experience less sexual intimacy the longer the relationship lasts, though this study has been subject to debate (see Lesbian bed death). Holmberg and Blair’s study, on the other hand, published in The Journal of Sex Research, found that women in same-sex relationships enjoyed identical sexual desire, sexual communication, sexual satisfaction, and satisfaction with orgasm as their heterosexual counterparts.
Late 19th century painting by Édouard-Henri Avril showing the use of a strap-on dildo
With regard to the ease or difficulty of achieving orgasm, Hite’s research (while subject to methodological limitations) showed that most women need clitoral (exterior) stimulation for orgasm, which can be “easy and strong, given the right stimulation” and that the need for clitoral stimulation in addition to knowing one’s own body is the reason that most women reach orgasm more easily by masturbation. Replicating Kinsey’s findings, scholars such as Peplau, Fingerhut and Beals (2004) and Diamond (2006) found that lesbians have orgasms more often and more easily in sexual interactions than heterosexual women do.
A woman performing anilingus on another woman
Preferences for specific sexual practices among female same-sex relationships have also been studied. Masters and Johnson concluded that vaginal penetration with dildos is rare and lesbians tend to do more overall genital stimulation than direct clitoral stimulation, which is also often the case for heterosexual relationships. Concerning oral sex, the common belief that all women who have sex with women engage in cunnilingus contrasts research on the subject. Some lesbian or bisexual women dislike oral sex because they do not like the experience or due to psychological or social factors, such as finding it unclean. Other lesbian or bisexual women believe it is a necessity or largely defines lesbian sexual activity, asserting that there is a problem if lesbians or other women who have sex with women dislike engaging in oral sex. Often, lesbian couples are likely to define a woman’s dislike of oral sex as a problem more than heterosexual couples are, and commonly seek therapy to overcome an oral sex inhibition. Similarly, there are lesbians who like anal sex and others “who cannot bear the thought of it”.
In 1987, a non-scientific study (Munson) was conducted of more than 100 members of a lesbian social organization in Colorado. When asked what techniques they used in their last 10 sexual encounters, 100% reported kissing, sucking on breasts, and manual stimulation of the clitoris; more than 90% reported French kissing, oral sex, and fingers inserted into the vagina; and 80% reported tribadism. Lesbians in their 30s were twice as likely as other age groups to engage in anal stimulation (with a finger or dildo).
In 2003, Bailey et al. published data based on a sample from the United Kingdom of 803 lesbian and bisexual women attending two London lesbian sexual health clinics and 415 women who have sex with women (WSW) from a community sample; the study reported that the most commonly cited sexual practices between women “were oral sex, digital vaginal penetration, mutual masturbation, and tribadism (frottage with genital-to-genital contact or rubbing of the genitals against another part of the partner’s body), each of which occurred in 85% of [women who have sex with women]“. Like older studies, the data also showed that vaginal penetration with dildos or other sex toys among women who have sex with women is rare.
The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reported there is little data available regarding the risk of spreading sexually transmitted diseases between women. However, the CDC notes that pathogens such as metronidazole-resistant trichomoniasis, genotype-concordant HIV, human papilloma virus (HPV, which has been linked to nearly all cases of cervical cancer) and syphilis can be spread through sexual contact between women. While the rates of these pathologies are unknown, one study showed 30% of lesbians and bisexual women had medical histories with sexually transmitted diseases. This does not mean sexually active lesbians are exposed to higher health risks than the general population.
The CDC did not recognize female-to-female transmission as a possible method of HIV infection until 1995. It is possible, though less likely, for transmission to occur in female-to-female sexual activity. Although the risk is not as high as for male-to-male and male-to-female transmission, it is still present. HIV can be spread through body fluids, such as blood (including menstrual blood), vaginal fluid and breast milk. Transmission can also take place through oral sex if a woman has cuts or sores in her mouth, or poor oral hygiene, especially if her partner is menstruating. HIV can also be spread through the sharing of penetrative sex toys if their use causes broken skin within the vagina or anus.
Some Famous Lebians and Bisexual women:
Tegan And Sara
Portia De Rossi
Chely Wright (Country singer)
Jessie J (Bi but leans more towards girls)
Ruby Rose (Australian MTV presenter)
Catherine McNeil (Australian supermodel
Lady Sovereign (Singer from UK)
Lindsay Lohan (Bi)
Cat Cora (Celebrity chef)
Samantha Fox (British 80’s singer)
Katherine Moennig (She hasn’t came out yet but she probably is)
Anna Paquin (bi)
Vanessa Carlton (bi)
Angelina Jolie (bi)
Freja Beha Erichsen (Dutch supermodel)
Kim Stolz (America’s next top model)
Kelly McGillis (Top gun)
Tammy Lynn Michaels
Joan Jett (Hasn’t come out yet but apparently she is)
Gia Carangi (Very famous supermodel who has now passed)
Michelle Rodriguez (Not out yet but there’s rumours)
Kristanna Loken (Bi)
Jackie Warner (Famous fitness trainer)
Tila Tequila (Bi)